Conversations With God Bk 1

On not living as a victim:

So long as you entertain the notion that there is something or someone else
out there "doing it" to you, you disempower yourself to do anything about
it. Only when you say "I did this" can you find the power to
change it.

It is much easier to change what you are doing than to change what
another is doing.

- Neale Donald Walsch